October 9

Thrifty Things To Do This Week – Do Something Wild

Week 2 – October 9th, 2017

It’s the second week of the month: if you can make the time, Try A New Free Or Cheap Activity and Grow Something.

The foraging season is almost over so if you are stuck for a free family activity to try this week, take the kids outdoors to pick brambles. (That’s blackberries if you live outside of Scotland.) I have very fond memories of doing this with my grandpa in my childhood. You can read everything he taught me about brambling with kids in Grandpa’s Guide To Bringing Home The Brambles.

As well as gathering brambles you could take time to pick up beech nuts, pine cones, conkers, twigs,etc. Once home pile them into jam jars, vases, bowl – whatever you have to hand. More seasonal than flowers and completely free. If you want the conkers to keep their shine try buffing them with vegetable oil on a square of kitchen roll.

For more ideas to help you go wild outside, take a look at The Wild City Book, packed with ideas to turn time outdoors into an adventure, or a science experiment, or an art workshop…

I will be back next week with a fresh Thrifty Habits Planner,

Free, Downloadable Thrifty Habits Planner To Keep You On Track

Click here to download your copy of this week’s free Thrifty Habits Planner.

So, you want to get into the habit of spending less without putting in more effort? You need something to remind you what to do and when, so you don’t have to keep thinking about it. The Thrifty Habits Planner is a simple tool to help you do just that. Use it to pencil in which thrifty things you plan to do this week and to pin yourself down to when you plan to do them. If you take control this way at the start of the week, you are far more likely to have stuck to your plan by the end of the week. Sticking your plan up somewhere you will see it every day helps you to stay on track too.

Take time at the end of the week to give yourself a little treat as a reward for your thrifty efforts. Little splurges will actually help you to stay thrifty – read this to find out how.

 

October 9

Grandpa’s Guide To Bringing Home The Brambles

When I was a child we spent a week each autumn in a caravan in the countryside. No electricity! no central heating!! No tv!!! No wifi!!!  Evenings spent playing board games; the soft hiss of gas lamps being lit as evening fell; beds still water-bottle-warm in the mornings as ice-crystals formed on the inside of the windows…

In spite of conditions that make Tartan Boy look at me with a mixture of horror, pity and incomprehension they were happy holidays. As kids, we looked forward to doing things that were different from our usual lives but still reassuringly familiar, because we did them each year. One of our favourites, enjoyed most days, was brambling with Grandpa. Grandpa is long-gone, sadly, but his approach to taking children fruit-picking stays with me. Here are the three wisest tips I learned from him.

  1. Kids need a reason – chat on the way about what you are going to do with your brambles when you get home. Make bramble jelly? Bake a bramble pie? Knock together a bramble and apple crumble? If that’s too far away to motivate them then offer a small reward for filling their containers. Most kids will do anything for a fun-size mars bar.
  2. Children need a quick win – don’t take big tubs for them to fill slowly. Grandpa used to collect empty food cans, drill two holes near the top and thread string through to make a long handle. Looped over a child’s head the cans hung at chest height, leaving our little hands free to pick fruit and pop it in the cans.The cans filled quickly, we felt proud of the speed with which we had reached the top and that spurred us on to fill another. Grandpa meanwhile tipped each full can into a big tupperware box. If drilling holes in cans sounds like too much work for a short brambling expedition, try dishing out small tupperware boxes for your kids to bring back to the mother ship.
  3. Children get bored quite quickly – don’t chivvy them to keep picking once they get restless. Move on – there will probably be a new patch of brambles not far away and they can attack that one with renewed enthusiasm. Or let them climb some trees, or play hide and seek, or sit down and have a snack… If none of that works, it’s time to call it a day and go home to eat your brambles.
September 16

Thrifty Things To Do This Week: Free Food From The Urban Hedgerow

Week 3 – September 11th, 2017

It’s the third week of the month: if you can make the time, Preserve Something and Review Your Spending. If you only preserve one thing this month, make it Mulled Apple Jelly – sweet, sharp and spicy, it is delicious with sweet and savoury food, making it the perfect all-rounder.

Product DetailsI bought this beautiful book (full price – my secret shame) when I was a student. It took me to a time when ladies kept house with an iron hand. A time when herbal remedies and secret recipes were passed from mother to daughter like family heirlooms. A time when still-rooms and store-cupboards secured survival and pleasure for whole households. A kind of Poldark of the kitchen.

An odd choice for a twentieth-century twenty-something, studying at a city-centre university, don’t you think? Nowadays we don’t need home remedies, hand-made preserves, or DIY cleaning products anymore – we have supermarkets not still-rooms for all that. And – romantic as the notion of gathering in and storing the harvest seemed as I read the book – it was hardly something a city girl like me had the option of doing. Cities don’t have hedgerows bursting with free fruit, do they? Cities have shops.

Sloe Gin And Beeswax” is still on my bookshelves, and I still dip into it for useful advice and sheer escapism from time to time. It is a lovely book and I would still recommend it if you can find a copy – it has been out of print for a while. But since I first read it I have discovered that cities do, in fact, grow free fruit. I have picked all sorts of fruits, completely free, without leaving the city – sometimes without even leaving my local area. For more information about how to plunder the city’s food supplies, read The Urban Forager.

 

Free, Downloadable Thrifty Habits Planner To Keep You On Track

Click here to download your copy of this week’s free Thrifty Habits Planner.

So, you want to get into the habit of spending less without putting in more effort? You need something to remind you what to do and when, so you don’t have to keep thinking about it. The Thrifty Habits Planner is a simple tool to help you do just that. Use it to pencil in which thrifty things you plan to do this week and to pin yourself down to when you plan to do them. If you take control this way at the start of the week, you are far more likely to have stuck to your plan by the end of the week. Sticking your plan up somewhere you will see it every day helps you to stay on track too.

Take time at the end of the week to give yourself a little treat as a reward for your thrifty efforts. Little splurges will actually help you to stay thrifty – read this to find out how.

I will be back next week with a fresh Thrifty Habits Planner, and advice about finding ‘free’ food in your very own kitchen.

September 9

Thrifty Things To Do This Week: Digging Some Spring Colour And Dogs In Duvets

Week 2 – September 11th, 2017

It’s the second week of the month: if you can make the time, Try A New Free Or Cheap Activity and Grow Something.

Yes, it is Autumn – a time for picking, not for planting. (On that note, free outings don’t come more wholesome than foraging in the fresh outdoors for free fruit – take along some Dogs In Duvets for lunch and it’s a picnic too.)

But it’s not too late to plant bulbs – in fact, this is the perfect time to do it. Right now all the usual bargain outlets (Aldi, Lidl, Home Bargains, etc) are stocked with cheap nets of daffodils, tulips, crocuses, etc. Granted, they don’t offer the wide variety you will get in a big nursery or DIY store. But, in my experience, they grow just as reliably as pricier offerings. Check out mail order suppliers too – they often have great bulk offers, handy if you have a lot of ground to cover.

An afternoon digging in the autumn sunshine now could see you enjoying bright colour in the dullest months of the year. And if you plant some indoors you could even have them flowering in time for Christmas for you to enjoy or give away. Pots of colour, for only a couple of pounds.

 

Free, Downloadable Thrifty Habits Planner To Keep You On Track

Click here to download your copy of this week’s free Thrifty Habits Planner.

So, you want to get into the habit of spending less without putting in more effort? You need something to remind you what to do and when, so you don’t have to keep thinking about it. The Thrifty Habits Planner is a simple tool to help you do just that. Use it to pencil in which thrifty things you plan to do this week and to pin yourself down to when you plan to do them. If you take control this way at the start of the week, you are far more likely to have stuck to your plan by the end of the week. Sticking your plan up somewhere you will see it every day helps you to stay on track too.

Take time at the end of the week to give yourself a little treat as a reward for your thrifty efforts. Little splurges will actually help you to stay thrifty – read this to find out how.

I will be back next week with a fresh Thrifty Habits Planner, a recipe for Mulled Apple Jelly and some tips on urban foraging. In the meantime, enjoy digging and picking and eating delicious Dogs In Duvets.

May 9

Five Principles Of Thrifty Living #4 Be Joyful And Generous Not Miserly And Miserable

Why Do You Want To Be Thrifty?

 

retro lady fro www.thegraphicsfairy.comAre you reducing spending so you can avoid debt – and avoiding debt because debt makes you miserable? Maybe you want to cut spending on some areas so that you can keep your money for the things that make you smile. Or do you just want to kick that anxious feeling that gnaws at you for the last two weeks of every month? Whatever your reasons – it’s a safe bet you are hoping that a thriftier life will be a happier one.

Saving our finances should never cost us our souls

But what if the process of reducing your spending makes you miserable? What if it turns out that you hate permanent self-denial, feel bad about exploiting other people/other creatures/the planet for a bargain and hate the drudgery of constantly cutting costs? What if, in pursuit of living cheaply you become…  cheap?

What if the whole process turns out to be soul-destroying? Saving our finances should never cost us our souls.

Saving Money Without Selling Your Soul

Four of the five Principles Of Thrifty Living are about spending less. This one is different. It’s about exercising some choice over how you save money so you avoid the trap of putting your finances ahead of your wellbeing and your values.

Choose Joy Over Misery

RetroNewYearsGraphicsFairyFrugality has enormous potential to make us miserable – not least because focussing most of your time and attention on money is never terribly healthy. And cost-cutting that also cuts all the pleasure out of life is a waste of effort – we humans rapidly lose interest in doing things that make us miserable and stop doing them. (That’s why gym memberships when you hate going to the gym are always a doomed purchase.) If you want to make thrifty living an effortless habit you also have to find ways of making it a joy – or you will effortlessly fall into the habit of not bothering.

Click here for this week's free Thrifty Habits Planner
Click here for this week’s free Thrifty Habits Planner

So find ways of saving money that also enrich your life. Grow some of your own food and enjoy a connection with the natural world. Make something you would otherwise buy and enjoy the glow of getting creative. Try a new free or cheap activity every so often and savour the variety in your life. Team up with other thrifters – in real life or online – and enjoy the company as well as the advice you get. Take time to applaud your own thriftiness – everything you do to cut your costs shows that you are resourceful, smart and determined so big yourself up for it.  Hold onto your values and do thrifty in a way that still lets you do you.

Choose Generosity Over Miserliness

The thrift that does not make a man charitable sours into avarice. [M.W. Harrison]

When you don’t have much there are two ways you can go. You can take the miser’s route – focus on what you don’t have and hold tightly onto what you do. Or you can take the generous way – focus on what you do have and use it to make yourself and others feel good. Being a miser may result in more money but it won’t make you rich where it really counts.

Tartan Thrifty Be Joyful And GenerousSo share what you can with other people, and take heart from the research suggesting that people who share their money feel happier than people who don’t. Don’t exploit other people to get the lowest price. Don’t exploit yourself either – by overloading yourself with budget-busting tasks or by endless self-denial. Be kind to yourself – buy yourself a little treat now and again. Don’t just set yourself savings goals – set yourself spending goals to focus on what your money is going to do for you. Find a balance between being careful with your money and being Scrooge.

Getting that balance right is the key to developing thrifty habits for the long-haul that truly make your life better.

Getting Into The Habit Of Being Joyfully And Generously Thrifty

These weekly, monthly and annual habits are the ones to get into if you want to embrace joyful generosity and avoid miserly misery.

Each week

  • how to buy happinessBuy yourself a little treat to keep your morale up

Each month

  • Share Something so your own thrifty journey does not stop you from connecting with other people on theirs
  • Grow Something  so you get food in a way that lowers your costs while raising your pleasure
  • Try A New Free Or Cheap Activity so that avoiding more expensive outings does not become boring

Each year

  • Set Savings Goals to remind yourself why you are trying to cut back your spending
  • Set Spending Goals so you are clear what your money will be doing for you over the next twelve months
April 11

Try A New Free Or Cheap Activity

 Frugal And Fun Or Miserable And Mean?

RetroNewYearsGraphicsFairyIt’s the week to Grow Something and to Try A New Free Or Cheap Activity. (If you have never grown anything before you can sprinkle some cress seeds on a wet tissue and tick both boxes, I guess.) Thrift can be fun – it requires you to be resourceful and creative and that makes you feel good about yourself. But thrifty living can also come to feel relentless, dull and restrictive. It’s the difference between a hobby and a job, between something you dip into when the fancy takes you and something you have to do, however you feel about it today.

Thrift can make you miserable and mean – so it’s important to take steps to make sure it doesn’t. This is why one of my guiding principles is to Be Joyful And Generous, Not Miserly And Miserable. For me, it’s not enough simply to stay out of the red – I want our thrifty lives to be happy ones. Not least because, if thrifty living makes you unhappy, you will start to live less thriftily.

 

Do Something!

how to buy happinessOne way of avoiding financial misery is to find stuff you can get cheaply or even for free. These bargains are the mainstay of many a thrifty home. But when I was researching how to spend our money to max our Happy, one of the things I learned is that doing things makes us happier than having things. In other words, we would boost our happiness more by finding stuff we can do cheaply or even for free.

Which is why one of my Thrifty Habits is to try a new free or cheap activity together each month. Now, I am not suggesting that you limit yourselves to just one outing a month to save money here – quite the opposite. What I am urging you to do is make a point of mixing things up a little by trying something different each month. I am inviting you to find as many different ways as you can to have fun for free – or as near to free as you can. That way you will never be cooped up at home on a rainy Saturday with restless kids, wishing you could afford to go out and do something. Instead you will have a whole list of tried and tested, on-budget options to choose from.

 

Experiments In Frugal Fun

It took me a while to get on board with this habit – when I spend money I want something tangible in return that I can keep. Throwing it away on activities that finished in a matter of hours seemed the opposite of thrifty. But I took a long shot on this one and have been truly surprised by the result. Thanks to this Thrifty Habit the Tartan Family have tried lots of outings without much outlay. Some of them have become regular activities on which we now spend money. Some have remained free or cheap activities that we can fall back on when we are bored and broke. Some were a fun one-off that was not for us – but we still enjoyed trying something new. And these experiences have remained with us as happy memories. All these experiments in frugal fun have kept up our morale in money-less months. Variety and activity do make for happy thrifters, it turns out.

Retro-Camping-Image-GraphicsFairy-320x320Our experiences have convinced me of the importance of this habit but in case you are unconvinced, here is an actual expert explanation of The Science Of Why You Should Spend Your Money On Experiences, Not Things. If you do decide to try out a new free or cheap activity, why not come back and add a comment about it – I would love to be inspired by your thrifty outings.

August 8

5 Lessons I Learned The Hard Way About Getting Your Money’s Worth At PYO Fruit Farms

Picking Fruit At A Formative Age

eastyondertonWhen I was four my family spent a week working as fruit pickers in East Anglia – partly for the free camping en-route to Europe, partly to give my teenage brothers a chance to make some spending money for the rest of the holiday. One morning they took me with them. (I am guessing that child labour laws were a little more lax then.) I picked strawberries alongside my mum all morning and earned a few pennies for my haul. I used them to buy a purse to keep them in. It was remarkably tasteless – orange and pink with sparkles –  and left me with about three pennies to put in it. But I was very proud of that purse. Thinking about it still makes me smile.

labelled jars of strawberry glam jamThere was an old lady on the site, who told my mother that she spent every summer on the camp. She liked to supplement her pension with her earnings from fruit picking, and she loved having company from daybreak to dusk. As a bonus, she bought a little of each day’s pickings at cost and spent her evenings sitting outside her tent boiling the fruit up over a precarious gas-burner to make a few jars of fragrant jam. By the summer’s end she had enough jars to see her through a year of teatimes and hostess gifts, for only a few pounds. I think of that old lady every time I make jam, forty-odd years later, and wish I could have told her what a lasting impression she made.

I learned several important lessons on that trip.

1.  A strawberry picked and eaten in the sunshine will taste better than any you have ever eaten straight from the fridge.

2.  Making a few jars of jam regularly can save you money and bring you pleasure – and doesn’t require lots of fancy equipment or a vast Downton Abbey kitchen.

3.  You are never too young to learn the connection between money and work.

4.  You are never too young to learn to take care of your money.

5.  Orange and pink with sparkles can literally bring on a headache. Although I suppose it might have been too many strawberries or too much sunshine.

pick your own strwberries in a punnet

Pick Your Own Fruit Farms – A Perfect, Free Family Outing?

DSCN0292No surprise then that our nearest pick-your-own fruit farm is one of my favourite free summer holiday outings. When I say free… obviously I pay for the fruit. Which I would have bought anyway. What I don’t pay for is the pleasure of spending a few hours under a wide blue sky floating on the honeyed smell of a million ripe strawberries as the kids run up and down the rows of fruit bushes in search of ladybirds. Today I lost track of them for a moment, but knew they were somewhere among the rows of fruit, perfectly safe. (I found my children – like a prudish Edwardian vicar’s wife – under a gooseberry bush, in case you are worrying .)

They love the fruit farm. I love that they are getting fresh air and learning about where their food comes from. And I love that I am getting fruit at peak ripeness for less than supermarket special offer prices.

There are some things not to love about picking your own fruit, though.

What’s Not To Love About Pick-Your-Own Fruit Farms

Getting Your Money's Worth At PYO Farms

images (1)1.  Not all PYOs are equal. Many now charge entry (why is this – I don’t have to pay to get into Asda, do I?) Some farms charge prices per kilo of fruit that are barely below the supermarket price. The idea is to make getting cheap fresh fruit double as a family outing, not to pay over the odds for either food or family fun. So avoid PYOs that charge entry and check their prices online before you go. Paying to pick fruit you could buy more cheaply is Not Thrifty.

2.  Jam does not make itself. Like the old lady in my childhood camping memories, once you have picked fruit you have to crack on with preserving it. You can get away with sticking it in a fridge for 24 hours but, after that, the layer at the bottom of your basket will start to get soft and mouldy. Been there. Now, before we head out the door to the farm, I schedule myself a specific time to get it jammed. If I don’t have time for jam-making the next day, I don’t pick more than we can eat in a couple of days. Picking your own and then throwing it in the bin a few days later is Not Thrifty.

ChristmasRetroShop-GraphicsFairy13.  Jam goes in jars. This is obvious, and yet… I have, on numerous occasions, picked mountains of fruit when I did not have mountains of jam jars. Much of my jam went to waste. This too was Not Thrifty. Now I check I have jars, cello tops and wax circles before I even think of picking fruit. Honest.
4.  It is very, VERY easy to get carried away. A strange, primitive gathering-lust descends on me at the fruit farm. There is something deeply absorbing about working your way steadily down a row of plants, focussing all your attention on finding more, more, more… Any mindfulness benefit of this is completely ruined, however, by finding that you have picked 20 kilos instead of 2 and must now sell one of your kidneys to pay for them. In supermarkets you can put food back on the shelves – fruit farms don’t work that way. Buying more fruit than you can use or afford is, again, Not Thrifty.
Berry-Picking-Picture-GraphicsFairy-thumb-150x1505. There is a limit to the amount of ripe fruit a small tummy can hold. On no account jiggle a small child who has just accompanied you to a fruit farm on your knee unless you have a very relaxed attitude to pink vomit. It turns out I do not. Food that comes straight back up is also Not Thrifty.

In spite of all this, provided you do your research and planning first, I still think an afternoon picking fruit in the sunshine is a fine free outing for the holidays. As an added bonus, the farm we go to is right beside Glasgow Airport and we can watch planes taking off and landing as we pick. How many supermarket fruit aisles offer that?

Glasgow airport runway from East Yonderton PYO Farm

June 27

Try A New Free Activity: A Vintage Bus Ride Around The West End

How To Buy Happiness
How To Buy Happiness

It has been a few months since I started trying a new activity each month.  It was an attempt to Buy Happiness – to invest in doing not having.  Positive psychology research suggests that we get better value for money if we spend it on activities than on material goods, and more satisfaction from variety than volume.  So we have embraced that and aimed to try out one new family activity each month to mix it up a bit.

We have not run out of new things to try and we score extra Thrifty Points for mostly finding free ones.  (Strictly speaking we paid for most of them with our Council Tax already).   During June we went nuts and tried something new every weekend:  the annual West End Festival was on, with a packed programme, much of which was free.   We have had a lot of fun, but this weekend was the winner.

 IMG_9892IMG_9879Glasgow Vintage Vehicle Trustbig red bus
runs a free vintage bus service around the West End for one day of the Festival each year and Sunday was The Day.  After a short walk in the sunshine we boarded a lovely old bus and trundled along to the Riverside Transport Museum.  Tiny Tartan was delighted to find a seat right behind the driver’s cab, and watched the driver intently through the window.

 

IMG_9887IMG_9880The bus was full of  happy passengers, the pavements full of smiling pedestrians pointing and taking photos, the streets full of other vintage buses with passengers waving cheerily to each other, and cars hooting hello to their new elderly neighbours.   A mundane trip through familiar streets turned into a big adventure.

 

IMG_9913IMG_9920IMG_9905More classic buses and a gleaming collection of vintage fire engines were parked outside the museum for the day.  Enthusiastic volunteers showed them off and let the kids sit inside, while they chatted to us about what drives them to spend their free time restoring old vehicles.
IMG_9927We spent so long enjoying the fire engines that we never did make it inside the museum and instead boarded another lovely old bus home.  We are already planning to make a whole day of it next year,  with more stops along the bus route to soak up the festival atmosphere.   If we had paid for it, it would have been great value for money.

 

March 11

Buy Happiness: Try Something New

You may have noticed that my initial intention to introduce new habits ‘one week at a time’ has wavered somewhat.  Truth is, my enthusiasm for the idea of developing new habits outstrips my ability to actually develop them.  Apparently, one new habit a week is more than I can handle and I am determined to work with the real me, not the ideal me.  So I have decided to slooooow it down and aim for just a couple of habits a month now.  This month’s second (and last – phew!) new habit is to try out a new, cheap activity.

HandNoticeVintage-GraphicsFairyWhy?  Surely when you are trying to cut costs, trying out new things that you might not even enjoy is nuts?  Well…

  1. Activity and variety make us happy.  So I figure a variety of activities should make us extra happy.
  2. Doing without gets old pretty quick.   Not spending much on treats shouldn’t mean having no treats.  At all.  Ever.
  3. Not Spending is a negative, and our minds don’t readily commit to negatives – much more inspiring to aim for something than to avoid something else.   So I am aiming to have lots of new experiences rather than avoiding spending money.  Experience has taught me that when I just aim to Not Spend, sooner or later I crack.
  4. Expanding the range of cheap activities we can enjoy will stop us shelling out for the more expensive options just because we can’t think of an alternative.
  5. Mixing it up a bit will be fun.  (Cheap fun!)

wee write imageSo – having discovered recently that I have already paid (with our Council Tax) for lots of family activities we have never tried,  I decided to pick one of them for our first new activity.  This week sees the start of Glasgow’s first ever Wee Write festival – a literary festival for children.   Saturday was Family Fun Day, with lots of free drop-in activities alongside the bookable events so we went along to enjoy the freebies and soak up the atmosphere.  That’s not what happened though:  I bought tickets for Tartan Boy and myself to attend the Metaphrog workshop while Tartan Dad and Tiny Tartan enjoyed the entirely free PlayTalkRead bus parked outside.   Truth to tell, we could have just stuck with the free activities (in fact, Tiny Tartan would have been thrilled to just spend the whole day on the play bus) and spent a very happy few hours there.  The atmosphere was buzzy,  the big reference library jumping with lively kids, and there was loads to do.

So – do I regret spending a tenner to go to a seminar on comic-writing with Tartan Boy?  Nope.  It was a brilliant hour:  TB lapped up every word, I thoroughly enjoyed watching him watching the presenters, and even enjoyed a little ham-fisted doodling of my own, and when we got home TB spent hours drawing his own top secret comic book.  We have talked quite a bit about ideas that came up in the workshop and TB clearly enjoyed having his mum to himself and sharing a special activity with me.  I am still mulling over some of the ideas about creativity and story-telling that came up in the workshop.  So that tenner has given us both a lot more than the one hour of entertainment we paid for.

money mumIt helps, though, that I now have a little fund for treats and outings and so did not have a slightly panicky feeling that we couldn’t afford it when I booked the tickets.  Next month, we will definitely try a totally free outing.

I have asked Tartan Boy to do a wee guest post about the outing too.  He would love to read your comments!

March 11

Metaphrog: a Guest Post

51au4WNvDVL__SX385_Hi guys, TartanBoy here! So at the weekend I went to a workshop called Metaphrog. It was run by the graphic novel authors John Chalmers and Sandra Marrs, most known for their Louis books. The workshop was all about comic book writing. They handed out boards, a pencil and a piece of paper during the workshop for doodling on. It was a really helpful lesson- I still can’t draw though! If you ever go to this workshop, you will enjoy it! Hope you check out Metaphrog, if you do, you will love their books. Goodbye guys!